إذا حبيبك عسل، لا تلحسه كلّه-اللهجة السورية
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كان يا ما كان، كان في شاب اسمه كريم، معروف بطيبته وكرمه، وما بيردّ حدا بيطلب منه مساعدة. كان رفيقه سامي كل ما يحتاج مصاري أو يوقع بمشكلة، يركض لعند كريم، وكريم دايمًا يوقف حدّه. مع الوقت، سامي تعوّد على طيبة كريم، وصار يطلب منه بكل صغيرة وكبيرة، وكأنه مساعدته صارت واجب عليه. بيوم، طلب سامي من كريم خدمة، بس كريم كان مشغول وقاله: “والله اليوم ما فيني، دبّر حالك.” زعل سامي وقال: “شو صايرلك؟ إنت مو متل قبل!” سمعت أخت سامي الحكي، وقالتله: ما بيصير يا أخي تستغل طيبة صاحبك….إذا حبيبك عسل، لا تلحسه كلّه. فهم سامي غلطه و إنّه طيبة صاحبه كريم لازم ما تكون باب لاستغلاله، وإن الشخص اللي بيحبك وبيوقف حدك لازم تقدّر معروفه، مو تعتبره حق إلك. ومن يومها، ضل سامي يطلب من كريم يساعده،،، بس بحدود، وسامي تعلّم يعتمد على حاله ويقدّر وقفة رفيقه. ومعنى المثل: إذا كان بحياتك شخص منيح وبيحبك وبيساعدك، لا تستغل طيبته وتطلب منه فوق طاقته، لأنك ممكن تخسره بسبب كثرة استغلالك إله
If Your Loved One Is Honey, Don’t Lick It All Syrian Dialect Once upon a time, there was a young man named Karim, known for his kindness and generosity. He never turned down anyone who asked him for help. His friend Sami would run to Karim whenever he needed money or got into trouble, and Karim would always stand by his side. Over time, Sami got used to Karim’s kindness and started asking him for help with every little thing, as if helping him had become Karim’s duty. One day, Sami asked Karim for a favor, but Karim was busy and said: “Honestly, I can’t today. You’ll have to manage on your own.” Sami got upset and said: “What’s wrong with you? You’re not like you used to be!” Sami’s sister heard them and told him: “You can’t take advantage of your friend’s kindness, brother. If your loved one is honey, don’t lick it all.” Sami realized his mistake. He understood that Karim’s kindness shouldn’t become an opportunity to take advantage of him. Someone who loves you and always stands by your side deserves to have their kindness appreciated, not treated as something you are entitled to. From that day on, Sami still asked Karim for help, but within limits. He also learned to rely on himself and appreciate his friend’s support. Meaning of the proverb: If you have a good, loving, and supportive person in your life, don’t take advantage of their kindness or ask more than they can give. Otherwise, you may lose them because you keep taking advantage of them.
